darling, darling

Sep 26



Putting down confident girls is not feminism

shaming sex workers is not feminism

"I’m not like other girls" is not feminism

slut shaming is not feminism

shaming BDSM practitioners is not feminism

misandry is not feminism

ignoring trans women’s rights is not feminism

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Sep 25


I read several dozen stories a year from miserable, lonely guys who insist that women won’t come near them despite the fact that they are just the nicest guys in the world.

..I’m asking what do you offer? Are you smart? Funny? Interesting? Talented? Ambitious? Creative? OK, now what do you do to demonstrate those attributes to the world? Don’t say that you’re a nice guy — that’s the bare minimum.

“Well, I’m not sexist or racist or greedy or shallow or abusive! Not like those other douchebags!”

I’m sorry, I know that this is hard to hear, but if all you can do is list a bunch of faults you don’t have, then back the fuck away..

..Don’t complain about how girls fall for jerks; they fall for those jerks because those jerks have other things they can offer. “But I’m a great listener!” Are you? Because you’re willing to sit quietly in exchange for the chance to be in the proximity of a pretty girl (and spend every second imagining how soft her skin must be)? Well guess what, there’s another guy in her life who also knows how to do that, and he can play the guitar. Saying that you’re a nice guy is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn’t make you sick. You’re like a new movie whose title is This Movie Is in English, and its tagline is “The actors are clearly visible”.

” —

David Wong, 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person

This never gets old. 

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And yes we do! Will you be around campus next week? We could meet up for lunch or something!


i hope you’re still alive and all that~ enjoy college~ don’t die~ 

(PS  i was just thinking and I STILL REMEMBER WHEN YOU WERE TINY AND YOUR HAIR WAS BIG AND YOU SLEPT ON MY FLOOR AND WE WATCHED LORD OF THE RINGS <3 did i ever tell you how the administration totes accused me of stealing all the shiny stuff that was in that box they gave us to ~~~entertain~~~ you lot and i was all I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU’D DO THAT I’M SO OFFENDED HOW DARE YOU and then they backed off, only i did actually take it all (but i gave it all away!!!! except for the glow in the dark stuff but GLOW IN THE DARK i mean really, really))

(PPS if i ever come back to california i’m totes crashing the party and showing up at your door and we’re gonna go do things and it will be brilliant)

ANYWAY take care, call me up if you ever need anything, etc, etc

Sep 23



Sep 22

Tagged by ericskarsman!

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Name: jin
Nickname: jinnie, “jinny bean” thanks v
Birthday: 25 jan
Gender: female
Sexuality: bisexual
Height: 5’2”/157 cm
Time zone: pacific
What time and date is it there: 4:25 PM, 9/22/14 
Average hours of sleep I get each night: 3-4 hours
OTPs: cap/iron man, me/coffee, I DUNNO
The last thing I Googled was: this
First word that comes to mind: cat?
What I last said to a family member: "do you want me to make you tea?"
One place that makes me happy and why: i don’t know.
How many blankets I sleep under: seriously like ten or more
Favorite beverage: tea/coffee
The last movie I watched in the cinema was: guardians of the galaxy
Something I plan on learning: how to not be an asshole, how to be happy, how to think about what i say before i say it, how to style my motherfucking bangs, how to be happy, how to swim better, how to accept kindness without being a suspicious fuckhead, how to be better.
A piece of advice for all my followers: fuck it. do what you want. there’s always going to be something you should be doing, something that’s keeping you from what you want. it’s not gonna happen tomorrow. you won’t get a break. make one, do what you need to do for yourself, and fuck everybody else.
You have to listen to this song: ocean of light - nellu go girl - lee hyorisexy doll - clazzi

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don’t feel obligated to do it~